This article really catched my eyes.. you all guys should read this and u will learn something, something that u never think about it. Thanks to this brilliant lady..
Guys, you should know this
I don’t need a guy who’s the hottest one around. I don’t need a guy with the hottest abs possible. I don’t need a guy who’s filthy rich & will shower me with gifts. I don’t need a guy who’s an athlete. Obviously no girls need these things, but we all wish for them. It’s like how you guys wish for a hot girl with big boobs, a small waist, big butt, & all that other stuff, but still a beautiful personality. All of us gotta think more realistically. No one needs perfection, we all know few of us will ever even see it, but we all want it nonetheless. Some girls will be superficial & won’t give a guy a chance if he’s not these things, but not me. & there’s plenty of other girls too. But more often than not, these are the girls who don’t have the sexiest bodies. You want us to accept you for all of you & your flaws, but tell me, how often do you even consider a girl who isn’t at least beautiful to some extent? About as often as some girls accept a less than handsome guy. We all have an image in mind that prevents us from giving someone else a chance. If we all just stop judging on appearance, everyone who has more than looks to offer would get a much better chance. & don’t think I’m being a hypocrite for saying any of this. Sure I’ll say I want a hot guy & everything, but I honestly put personality above all else. I’ll befriend anyone who’s willing to do the same to me, & by doing that, opportunities for more always exist. I was raised to not judge people & since I have no right to be picky about who I date, then why would I do that? It’d be ridiculous. Off topic! Anyway, the point is that a lot of girls, you know at least one came to your mind while you read this, are girls that’d be open to you & that you ought to be more open to as well. Keep in mind that confidence is more attractive than looks sometimes & that a girl who’d do you right is the kind who will accept you completely for who you are, not what you look like. & because of this, you should realize that you should treat us the same. We all claim to look for love, but we automatically, sometimes unconciously, exclude all those who don’t fit our ‘perfect image’ which likely eliminates a lot of the people who’d be most able to give us exactly what we’re looking for, if not more.
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